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Re-Membering (6 of 12 Sessions)

VI. Session #6--Morality

A.

What does living a moral life mean to you?(Go around the room)

B.

Definition:
Morality is the practice of morally good and appropriate actions in our efforts to become ever more truly and fully human and live accordingly.  In short, living a moral life is the expression of our desire to live life fully and authentically as human beings.

C.

Canon Law #747 paragraph 2.
To the Church belongs the right always and everywhere to announce moral principles, including those pertaining to the social order, and to make judgments on any human affairs to the extent that they are required by the fundamental rights of the human person or the salvation of souls.

D.

Stages of Development--Erik Erickson.

1.

Infancy and early childhood(birth to 5 years old).  It is at this stage of development that we develop our sense of trust with parents, siblings, and relatives.  We discover our own sense of autonomy and experiment with it in our world.  Our lessons of right and wrong are being learned at this stage of development.

2.

Childhood(6-10 years old). This stage of development is when we become explorers of our world.   We must know what's out there.  And what's out there is found to be both good and bad.  Sometimes the bad are the hard lessons of life.

3.

Pre-adolescence and puberty(10-13 years old). This stage of development is about doing things.   Helping in the kitchen, raking the leaves, helping dad fix the car, helping mom with the garbage and taking care of the dog.  Our independence in the world is maturing and we are making good and bad decisions for ourselves(and we know it.)

4.

Adolescence(14-17 years old). This stage of development is when we gain our own sense of identity.   We are becoming our own person.  It is that time in our lives when through our own independence we begin making serious choices for ourselves that are both good and bad.   It is that time in our lives when we know it all!

5.

Early adulthood(18-35 years old). This stage of development is when we become intimate with others.  It is this stage when moral values we have learned are put to the test and put into practice, whether for good or evil.  It is that time in our lives when we learn by our mistakes.

6.

Older adulthood ( 36-65 years old). This is the stage of development when we are less focused on ourselves and more focused on guiding and teaching the younger generation about avoiding our mistakes.  Doing what is morally right is very important to this stage of growth.   We want to know that our children will be a safe world.

7.

Twilight of Life (65-death).  This is the stage of development when we look back over our entire life and hopefully have integrated the joys and sorrows of life into making us whole human persons truly authentic in every way in this world.

E.

Morality--in the end, it's what God has written on our hearts and we know automatically what is right and what is wrong.  We don't need anyone, including the Church to tell us( but it's nice to know someone has articulated it).

F.

Close with prayer.

Next--Session #7